Erin Tarr at Be the Benchmark mentors girls through special events and 1:1 coaching.

Girls are challenged to utilize the 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens in order to choose a healthy mindset, create a life they love, and pursue their passions to help change the world.  

Young Girls

Join us for our monthly Fierce Girls’ Friday in grades 3rd – 8th experience empowering activities designed to help them embrace their inner fierceness! Our mantra: “I choose my thoughts, to create my life, and change the world. I.AM.FIERCE!”

Teen Girls

Join us for weekly sessions featuring mindfulness, TED talks, and goal oriented discussions designed to keep you headed in the right direction as you plan the next phases of your life. Reach out to me on Facebook or via Email ( to learn more.

College Girls

Contact me to begin a 1:1 coaching via facebook or email (, if you are ready to be personally encouraged, challenged daily, and held accountable to setting and achieving goals that will allow you to create a life you want to live with maximum impact.


Join the (free) Benchmark Mod Squad Facebook Group – a group of moms dedicated to raising FIERCE daughters who are strong, confident, brave, and kind!

Ready To Be The Benchmark?

Click on any title below to check out everything that we offer.

Free Session

Schedule a coffee date with Erin to determine which Benchmark path is right for you! Click HERE for access to the Calendar.

Teenage Girls

Love who you are, have fun, make friends.


We want what you want for your daughter – confidence and a bright future!

1:1 Coaching : Maximum Progress

The quickest and most effective way to build confidence and conquer the next step on your daughter’s journey is through 1:1 coaching where she can learn how to claim her awesomeness and live it out daily.


Fearless Girls Friday – An evening of fun activities designed to help your daughter become a fearless, confident, assertive, goal-oriented and purposeful young woman! Click HERE for date and time.

For Girls Only : Benchmark Groups

With 3 gatherings per month, Benchmark Girls group members experience a host of benefits as they become the best version of themselves.

Benchmark Girls Are

Brave and Kind
Confident Communicators
Proactive and Positive
Aware of their unique strengths, passions, and personality
Ready to meet and conquer their fears
Happy, healthy, and hopeful about their future

Connect With Erin

Free Session

You can meet Erin for a coffee date to determine which Benchmark path is right for you! Click HERE to access her schedule.

Text Erin

Text me (click here for my number) or catch me on Snapchat (benchmarkgirl).

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